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Reply to "H claims that I abuse him emotionally, whereas I think it is the other way around"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I dread it whenever he is at home, even if he is in the guest apartment. I don't know how to get him to come over only at predetermined times (when I would be either in my home office or out of the house). [/quote] Yeah, you can't control that, if you are accepting this setup. If you want to make it work, just make yourself scarce as soon as he strolls over. "Going to pop in the shower." "Going to do some laundry." Quietly exit and go to your laptop & put your earbuds in, if anyone finds you, say you are catching up on work training. The minute he shows up to interact with DD, go do something else - I'm sure you have plenty to do! If you do not like the little interactions with DH, avoid like the plague with a plausible excuse. Avoidance, gray rock, no response until college is your motto. [/quote]
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