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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you aren’t going to divorce him, you need to go totally grey rock.  It only hurts your feelings because you let us and on some level you still care what he thinks about you.  If some crazy man on the street yelled at you, would your feelings be hurt? No.  You need to mentally relegate him to crazy man on the street status.  If he comes into the main house, continue what you are doing or just leave the room.  If he starts a fight, respond as briefly as possible and then leave.  There is no need to respond to comments like “you’re expendable.”  Just walk away.  He may eventually get bored with trying to pick at you.  He’s probably an emotional vampire — he is trying to get a negative charge off you because he feeds off this.  Do not give that to him.

The other option is to get a divorce and move out, or have a judge decide who gets the house.  But I can see where you don’t want to risk upsetting your daughter’s living situation, especially if he is gone most of the week.  I think you’re probably setting yourself up well for getting the house in a divorce, since you do most of thx childcare and he has already moved to the apartment.[/quote]

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