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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the child is 5, she's probably starting K. If you agree to ROFR, for say 4 hours, the gf can watch her after school,  because dad said he gets home at 6 and school usually gets out at 3.

If Dad is working on a non school day, and Mom is available, she would have her. This applies both ways btw, if Mom was not available Dad could have her.

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Why would OP agree to this when the mom is erratic and vindictive? I these circumstances it’s better for the parents to have fewer points of friction and more boundaries. [/quote]

It's in the best interest of the child to have time with both parents. It's not all about the adults.[/quote]

I think you’re confused. The custody order would provide for each parent to have time with the child. “Best interests” does not mean that the non-custodial parent gets to take the child during the custodial parent’s time. In fact this could be needlessly disruptive and bad for the child. [/quote]

I think you're confused. The OP already has 50/50. The mom isn't going to get to reduce his time, especially considering that this status quo has been established for years already according to OP. But he also doesn't have an argument for there not to be reasonable rofr in their parenting plan. He should consult with his attorney as to what is reasonable,  most likely that would be 4 or more hours, not any time like mom wants.[/quote]

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