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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you should feel free to speak whatever truths are available to you.

You are getting dragged on this thread because you are being smug and excited to ruin this woman's life, happy to tell her husband, posting this gloating anonymous post and then responding aggressively to everyone who disagrees with you. To me, that is the part that speaks to YOUR character in this situation. Your husband's affair has clearly brought out the worst in your character, and you think it makes you brave.

- not an AP, so back off with your paranoid garbage[/quote]

She's venting anonymously to strangers. Probably so she doesn't vent to people in her real life. She may sound "happy" to you but she's furious and, yeah, hurting, and out for blood, all of which are normal reactions.

What she does with those reactions IRL is what matters next, but we'll never know for sure what she will do IRL.

Meanwhile she can vent here and be as mean, petty and angry as she wants with us strangers and that's a release for her. You can choose not to read it and choose not to post. Venting doesn't make her a terrible person like you insist she must be; it makes her human. [/quote]

I can also choose to point out that her attitude is gross. Many of these reactions are, as you say, normal. Not all normal reactions are healthy. Lots of people manage to be angry and hurt without taking pride in inflicting MORE suffering. It's like the argument here is that because the husband and AP did this bad thing, OP has license to be as angry and cruel as she wants. I disagree with that across the board.

You can have a completely understandable anger/hurt reaction to being wronged deeply without being excited to inflict pain on someone else - whether it's the righteous infliction of pain y'all think is happening when she tells the husband, who may or may not want to know, or the pain she's admitted to be happy to inflict on the AP. I was taught that two wrong don't make a right. Dunno what YOU were taught.[/quote]

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