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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - can you please respond to previous question about finances? Are there college funds for 2 older kids, can you afford a new house with new wife, a 3rd college fund; and split your retirement in divorce ? [/quote] OP here. College funds are okay, 100k for each child. I just closed on a new house couple of months ago. Retirement is okay as well. [/quote] 100K each is not much actually. And the new wife would request adding her to the title of your new house, or buying a new house together. Also, the question on the retirement was different: is what you have now sufficient to live through 75 at least with the same spent? Can you afford losing some part of your newly accumulated retirement (e.g. during marriage), if it ends in divorce? Also, important is if she works and how much she's making relative you, and if she expects to be SAHM[/quote] I am not OP but y'all are crazy....100k is enough for 3 years at a decent public university. [/quote]
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