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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does poly ever work long term? I get that it could work short term, but it is hard to imagine it being both stable and good for all concerned (not just for some) longer term.[/quote]

Yes. Been in a poly relationship for 8 years now.[/quote]

Tell us how it works for oral and A. sex, controlling if your secondary partners don't have deceases, liability issues if infected with herpes or hepatitis., splitting your time, building a relationship between you and your partner; contracting other partners. [/quote]

The exact same way it works in other relationships: trust, honesty, and integrity, if you're lucky. Lies, manipulations, and cheating, if you're not.

Adding partners doesn't change much about the base dynamics of sexual relationships. It increases the need to communicate well, and maybe more often, but if you can't do that, you can't do that. The number of parties you're communicating with isn't the deciding factor.[/quote]

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