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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think so.

I’m a guy and I’m doing better . Have my own place, dating hotter younger women and have equal custody with my kid .

My gf now is steps above my ex wife in terms of looks and personality.  And about 15 years younger.  My last gf was 18 years younger .

Issue is most women are running around and date bf the same few guys, then getting their backs blown out and ghosted then think all guys are bad.  It’s their own bad decisions and no one wants to be in a serious relationship with an old bitter hag with kids.  Go out on dates, EVERY woman I’ve been on date with who is divorced says their ex-husband is a narcissist. Then they go out and date narcissists apparently, because they all complain their ex-boyfriends are too.

At first I’m like, that’s not even statistically possible — but then realized women usually try to date the top 5% and they wonder why they’re pumped and dumped.  It was so easy to get single moms in their 40s to have sex in one or two dates.  That’s why I called it quits on dating them and stuck To younger women who want more of a relationship.  [/quote]

Dude, it’s possible because you are a narcissist and attracting women who date narcissists.

This seems incredibly obvious to anyone who isn’t trying to dance circles around it.  [/quote]

Ooo watch out brother….armchair psychologists here.

He’s right, you constantly hear women complain their exes are narcissists.  So women inherently make bad decisions.  They use the “he’s a narcissist” schtick to justify their crappy behaviors. Oh he was a narcissist so it’s ok I dumped him after I slept with a guy I met on tinder….most have an aversion to accountability, that’s why every failed relationship is the guys fault, you’ll never hear a woman admit she was at fault for anything.

With that being said, keep that in mind every time you go on a date and you hear them rant about their ex.  If you find one who doesn’t she’s a woman you want to consider keeping around.

As for younger women, they’re often better looking and not bitter, have at it if you can. [/quote]

I’m a psychiatrist, not a psychologist.  I do hear some women say this, but very few.  Certainly no one I know in my personal life talks like this.

If you find yourself consistently dating the very small portion of women who complain about all of the men they date being narcissists, then something about you is attractive to women who are attracted to narcissistic men.

I’m not saying that everyone who has ever dated a woman who complains about narcissistic exes is a narcissist himself.  As you pointed out, these women have a poor sense of self and tend to date a lot of different men.  But if you every woman you date has a past full of narcissistic exes that she has cheated on, then that is you.  This is a seriously small percentage of women, and either you are seeking them out or they are seeking you out, and neither is good.

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You’re full of garbage and it shows.  Studies show women are attracted to narcissists.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201406/why-we-fall-narcissists?amp

It’s either genetics or bad decision making skills.

You’re a woman so no woman is going to complain to you about their narcissistic ex, they’re not dating you.  Guys hear it all the time.

I’d figure that’s not statistically possible, are they dating the same guys?  Turns out yeah…yeah they are.

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research

https://m.economictimes.com/magazines/panache/the-math-behind-dating-apps-women-like-only-4-out-of-100-profiles-men-more-likely-to-swipe-right/amp_articleshow/75736043.cms

They’re all selecting 10% or at tops 20% of men so they’re dating the same guys .  Those who don’t use dating apps are consistently complaining they can’t find guys.  But I’ve seen guys dating multiple women at a time and they seem fine with it.  Why?  Because he has a ton of money.  So they’re selectively putting themselves in their situation.

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