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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What provisions can I write in the Parenting Plan to avoid this situation?  My almost XH wants to move in with his AP and have kid overnights almost immediately. Totally immoral. I hate him[/quote]

You really can’t. He’s not going to agree to it, and a judge won’t impose it. Judges really don’t care about infidelity (certainly not from a custody perspective), and definitely not about who your husband dates after you separate.

You can put in a requirement that you notify each other if your kids are sleeping somewhere else, but you can’t really say who your husband can and can’t spend time with when he has the kids. And you don’t want to use your kids to spy and tattle on the other parent. That’s alienation, and judges do care about that.[/quote]

+1. Sadly he is correct. That other 50% is almost beyond your control. The only you can do is hope and pray (if you are religious or spiritual) that everything ends well. Unfortunately any court intervention is always post facto. Even if you have doubts suspicion about certain things a judge will most likely only take action after your worst fear has been materialized. Divorce when you have children stinks. [/quote]

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