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[quote=Anonymous]Scapegoat sister: Degrees from top universities, unemployed, volatile, challenging relationships, nasty divorce (due to her cheating and vindictiveness), uses her child as a pawn, enmeshed with mom, gets lots of handouts and help from mom. Constant dramas. Will deal with the same things we all deal with, but it erupts and she is the victim. Tries to throw me under the bus, even after we distanced completely. Now mom will accuse me of not returning her calls, i simply say "that is correct" and change the subject. Me/scapegoat: Enjoy my job, happily married, enjoy motherhood and protect my kids. Have faced many challenges, but I deal with them without drama and chaos. I get therapy when needed and don't expect anyone to rescue me or be my pacifier. Nice friends. Very vigilant for red flags and avoid/distance from those like sibling. I have strong boundaries.[/quote]
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