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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Edited You want to be a stand home mom so yes, you do want a meal ticket. Accept who you are, dump the good guy, let him find a good girl, and go find you a man who will pay for your life without much in return.[/quote] What a cynical outlook! A woman who wants to allow for the possibility of staying home when their children are young is not looking for a meal ticket. The younger generation has been sold a bill of goods that a woman should desire to place her children with another for care 9+ hours per day. Smh[/quote] No it’s not cynical. It’s realistic. Either you want to be a full partner or you want to be a dependent. Stay home while kids are not in school but go back, few people have kids in daycare for 9 hrs. For me my kids sleep 3 of the 6 hours they were in the care of others. Be honest about your intent.[/quote] Then OP should look at men who make at least same and herself. As otherwise she would be the one financing full time childcare, camps, travel etc. Men shouldn’t be getting an income break if they don’t accept a concept of stay at home parent [/quote]
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