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[quote=Anonymous]Wow I can’t believe this thread. If I went in and changed my husband’s office he would not appreciate it. If he came in and rearranged mine I would not appreciate it. The PPs and the husband who think they know better than OP and these must be improvements are jerks. By definition OP knows what she likes better than anyone else. And the people calling her husband a gem for doing so because he wrote a nice note just emphasize how the bar for being a good husband is literally on the floor. Oh he did something really weird to your space and you hate it? Well he’s not at this exact moment screwing a prostitute so count your blessings. Men can’t be expected to care about what their spouses actually think or feel right? Good grief. He might be condescending, he might be emotionally slow or maybe there is some actual reason he thought you would like this (I can’t really imagine what it would be but maybe). Whatever we can’t tell from your post. But you don’t have to wait one second to put your office back to how you like it. You can say you liked the note but you like your office the way you had it and you would like it to stay that way. You don’t have to say you wanted to cry or call names but put your space back the way you want it and don’t apologize for doing so. [/quote]
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