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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I"m on this board because I am really trying to understand. I am a family member who has been warning my cousin for 2 decades. I am really trying to understand why on earth you would be so dismissive. also, my relationship is quite strong so I am trying to offer other perspectives also, it is a shame that noone warned you. that is on them as well. Maybe they did and you weren't ready to hear it?[/quote] DP. Something tells me you often offer unsolicited advice and/or just generally lack compassion with your family. You can deliver your opinion without being nasty. I avoided a FTL husband and am damn proud of it. I do think I was super thoughtful about my husband's traits and made sure I got someone as driven and ambitious as I am. But I also underestimated some issues in him, as I'm sure he feels he underestimated some issues in me. And I've had friendships fail because I wasn't honest with myself about who I was/who they were, etc. I'm humble enough to know I'm not perfect. I'm personally here to learn.[/quote]
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