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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP with some more answers:
1)  her first marraige ended because of infidelity-his not hers
2)  no, she does not want a divorce.  She would rather stay in the situation mostly I think because I make most of the money
3)  how do I reconcile leaving my children with someone harming them?  It's either that or play referee until they are off to college. 
4)  how come I am not fighting for sole custody?  My attorney and friends of mine who tried have come up against a brick wall.  We live in 2012 with 1960's laws.
5)  I work long hours (welcome to how to make enough money to live in the area) but do not expect every night to be a discussion of world political issues.  And she would be the first to admit that I do more than my share of housework and child care.
6)  would I want the kids full time?  If I had to I would do what it took.  But the only time I have ever seen a man get full custody is when he was able to prove that his wife was a drug addict.
7)  connection missing?  You bet.  That kind of match when two people area a team has been gone for years.  That is what I miss most.  
8)  how close are we living?  Within five minutes.[/quote]

Are you for real?!  You lost me on #3.  Any good father would OF COURSE rather "referee until they are off to college" rather than leave their children with someone "harming them."  Also, you statement about whether or not your would want the kids full time is telling.  You say: "If I had to I would do what it took."  If you HAD to - WTF???  Having custody of the children is a privilege and honor for most parents.  I can't imagine anyone reading your words claiming that you sound like a man who really wants his kids.

You want out.  Just own that.  You want to paint your ex as someone who is angry, wants your money, has been divorced in the past and hits your kids.  Maybe, or maybe not; who knows.  Regardless, you, unknowingly paint yourself as a much worse actor here: you are selfish and you DON'T really want your kids.  That much is plain here.  I find myself pleased that this is an anonymous forum b/c I can only imagine the further pain you would cause your kids with your callous, empty, narcissistic and lame excuses.  [/quote]

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