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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is dodging the age question. It's OK to be old, just let us know we can put your decision making skills in context lol[/quote]

We are both in our 40s. Yes, I don’t want to be strung along while he’s raising his child. My timeline is tighter than his to find the right partner and move in together. But he’s the best I’ve met so far, so no point to backtrack from relationship, under certain conditions. I don’t want to invest in it more than he can de-facto invest/commit to in the near perspective. Action, not words matter to me. In the meantime, I’ll be dating socially [/quote]

OP this is PP who asked the age question. Thanks for letting us know. Wish you luck, didn't mean to be cruel, also helps explain the overthinking here a bit vs younger. I think you should just be open with the guy. Don't overthink it. Just be direct and let the chips fall where they may.

Let us know how it goes. I expect he'll get attached to you, you'll get bored with him and you can move on guilt free knowing you were up front about what's going on. Let him decide what's right for him given the above
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