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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc?  or other. [/quote]
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.

I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.

Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help. [/quote]
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f. [/quote]
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart. [/quote]

No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted. 
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that. [/quote]

Np. This is just pathetic. Way to confirm what that lady is saying about how useless and also unpleasant men are. [/quote]

You’re pathetic. I’m a woman and can see right through you bitter female dogs. [/quote]

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