Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Swimming and Diving
Reply to "Help me find a new club"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]It seems to me that burnout is something that happens when parents are not paying attention to their kids and ignore their cues and requests. A kid who loves swim practice on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday doesn’t wake up on Thursday with burnout. Rather, the kid has been dragging their feet for a few months, has not been enjoying meets, has asked the parents if they can skip a few practices and they were pushed to continue. And those cues and signs can be completely unrelated to results. I have seen cases where the parents are proudly posting results on Facebook, telling friends and family how much their kid loves to swim, and identifying their kid as “Larlo the swimmer”. Meanwhile, the kid is telling their friends that they hate it and want to quit. An easy solution is to have a true off season, not just a few weeks of break after long or short course. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics