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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am also married to a surgeon. I went back to work at a job working Friday evenings. My kids were old enough to be on their own for a couple of hours, and it didn’t much matter if they didn’t get homework done or get to bed on time on Friday evenings. So, even if DH completely dropped the ball, it didn’t screw anything up. I have been doing it for about four years now. It works out really well. Sometimes DH can’t make it home until very late, so he orders them dinner and calls them several times. Most of the time they have their little Friday evening routine. I think it’s been good for DH to have some time on his own with his kids. I can’t imagine never being alone with my kids. It’s so different. I get all of the advice to hire help, but sometimes having someone else in your house can be more annoying than helpful. And it doesn’t actually make [/quote] What?? One evening a week is nothing You need your own savings girl! 50/50 rarely happens - [b]higher earner gets to keep everything[/b] [/quote] This is not true. Stop spewing nonsense. [/quote]
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