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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here , I do want to protect my children. However, why should there be a "burden" on me to protect her? She didn't think about us when she was having her affair...[/quote] It's every parent's "burden" (I would say "responsibility") to protect their children from all kinds of things. When one parent is doing harmful things, it's all the more important for the other parent to prioritize the children's well-being. That is why. Oh, you say, but that burden is just toooo haaaard? Soooo haaaard to be a good father to children who really, really need a good parent right now? Look, if you entered into parenthood thinking you'd always have a wife who's willing to put the kids first and you wouldn't have to do any really difficult parenting conversations or make any major sacrifices of your own well-being, well clearly you thought wrong. Time to step up for your kids. [/quote]
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