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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to do some individual therapy to find out what your reactions come from (anger, fear, misplaced blame, guilt, childhood issues) No matter what happens you need to work through that.  As the kids get older things will change pretty quickly (<5 years or so) and if you can figure yourself out a bit by then you both can make some better informed decisions. [/quote]

The support needs for our child are not to change, except that they will become physically more demanding over time as he gets bigger. It's certainly not going to get easier over time.[/quote]

But your other child will be more independent, and so your routine will be very different.  And, yes, there will be caregiver support options for your sn child.  I hear you feeling like you’re just not cut out for this.  We all feel that way as parents.  Find your escape hatch - maybe it’s music - go see a live band (or play an pen mic night) twice a month and hire a sitter to help your wife.  Then insist your wife goes out twice a month with her sister or her coworker and do the same.  Be the grace for eachother right now even if that’s all you can give eachother. Don’t have regrets.  And, yes, go to therapy.  It’s cheaper than divorce and worth more than life insurance.  [/quote]

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