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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, as someone who was once a 13 year old drinking at sleepovers and sneaking out to meet boys, I can tell you that more discipline is not the answer. You daughter’s behavior is a cry for help, not a cry to be punished. In my case, I got moved around a lot and my parents were dealing with a lot of their own issues. I was trying so hard to fit in somewhere and seeking some sort of approval from my peers. They didn’t keep me in any sort of continuous activity because of moving around. Yes there should be consequences, but I also think you need to do something to bond with her and help her build up her value and self esteem. Also extracurriculars, especially a physical activity is a good idea. [/quote] The best advice on this whole thread. [/quote] I agree with this. Take away some privelages and work on building the relationship. 13 is tough. She likely needs empathy, validation. [/quote]
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