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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think the first step is to sit with yourself until you can honestly articulate the reasons her clothes are bothering you. If you use a word like “trashy” or “mature” you need to be able to explain what you mean and why you feel it’s a defensible position. I think that will go a long way towards keeping yourself out of insult territory, and if/when she disagrees, you’ve modeled that the conversation can be had in a mature way. You can argue about it, but do it respectfully. If you start out by being disapproving and using insulting euphemisms, you can’t be surprised when she responds poorly. [/quote]
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