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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It honestly made me feel uncomfortable. My drink was just a basic two ingredient cocktail. I think I look pretty normal and forgettable. I made sure to pay cash because I didn’t want him taking down my name and then social media or Google stalking me.[/quote]

Did you get drunk when you went to several weeks ago? Do you feel insecure about the amount of drinks that you ordered? I sense that some sort of specious element here.[/quote]

Just one drink. Tipped normally, nothing too low or too high. Nothing about my brief visit was memorable. I do not want to be remembered and treated like a barfly on a first name basis with any server. I don’t want to be served like “oh, the usual?” It is not courteous, it is rude to conduct yourself like this to a woman in a drinking establishment. And it is a little creepy to remember woman and her drink when she briefly visited several weeks ago.[/quote]

It is considered the sign of a good bartender to remember your drink.

Next time just drink along in your hotel room.[/quote]

[b]Is this an American thing?[/b] I truly do not understand why that makes for a good server you will see once or twice in your life. It’s not as if it was waiting for me when I walked in. It doesn’t save any time. It insinuates you drink a lot there. Which I don’t. And it startled me, so I switched my drink order. Maybe that’s something you want at your local cafe you visit with your family twice a week for years on end and they remember just how you like your steak frites. Or maybe men like this from bartenders. Not something a bartender should ever do to a random solo woman.[/quote]

Where are you from?[/quote]

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