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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I go on a couple guy's trips per year; my wife goes on a couple girl's trips each year.  We both drink on the trips, and they are not spent at art museums.  We both are tired when we get back, and maybe sleep in a little the first day back.  But none of us ever ignore our responsibilities for several days afterwards.

Predictably, this thread has brought out the DCUM crazies/alarmists - he's cheating, don't let him go anymore, he has a drinking problem, "I don't go on these trips and if you do than your marriage is in trouble," etc.  In reality, this "issue," such as it is, requires a couple of respectful conversations (and I don't believe Op has said that she actually talked with her husband, or what his response was).  [/quote]

The issue isn't the trip.
The issue isn't the drinking.

The issue is that OP feels like he shirks responsibilities for days? (I don't think OP has responded to questions to be more specific on this- whether this was the first morning back or more.) after.

The answer is to have a conversation with him- a clam non-accusatory conversation.[/quote]

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