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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not being able to give my virginity to my husband[/quote] This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.[/quote] Not the PP, and not religious at all, but YOU just sound ultra judgmental. [/quote] New Poster, but it does sound weird and religious. [/quote] It IS religious. Is it okay with you if some people are religious, including with respect to sex? If not, what are you afraid of?[/quote] Thank you, PP. This regret did not start off having any religious aspect to it, though I have grown in my faith in time. I will say it any way DCUM likes. I wish my husband were the only person I had ever had any physical contact with, because he is the love of my life, and I wish I had always belonged only to him. Also, not like it would matter to the judgmental folk here, but my only other physical "relationship" was nonconsensual. Perhaps that is why I chose to phrase it the way I did. So sad that the idea that lifelong, faithful, chaste love has fallen out of cultural favor. Think of how much suffering would be avoided and how much joy would be experienced if this were still pursued as an ideal. Just look at how many previous responses had to do with abortion, sex too soon or with the wrong person, poor choices in relationships (often because indulging in physical attraction overrode common sense), promiscuity, etc. And how many PP's will fight with all they have to ensure their children do not grow up to have the same regrets. I hope my daughters and my sons ("wussy" to have one true love and be faithful to her even before meeting her??) are able to remain counter cultural and give all of themselves to their future spouses. My husband gave that to me, and it is my greatest treasure. Not being able to do the same is my deepest regret.[/quote]
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