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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do nothing.

[b]Why are you checking her social?[/b][/quote]

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I would too. It hasn’t even been a year for OP.

I love how these OW/APs stalk the wives for YEARS without their knowledge…and then after they blow up the betrayed wife’s life and she’s trying to piece together what was her reality all that time she was being gaslit—they get self righteous.

It’s a natural compulsion to look. Who wouldn’t want to know who the interloper was and what they are about?

[b]But- It will drive you mad and then you will learn it’s a trigger. To completely get her out of your head, you learn not to look her up anymore or give her a shred of a thought. The  ironic part of it is—ask cheating men —they completely move on and forget the side piece—but once the wife knows she’ll have every detail she learns imprinted on her brain.[/quote][/b]

It’s true- the men move on and the women have a sort of intimate strangers level of knowledge about one another, which is toxic yet somehow satifying.  They compete for a plastic carnival prize that off-gasses noxious fumes.[/quote]

This.

Dump him, OP.  Also, call a lawyer and accountant.  Maybe he realized how much it would cost to divorce so changed his mind/ is hiding the money.  Ask me how I know (close friend husband did almost similar and hid the money while they were "reconciling")... Get tested for all STDs.

Also, you sure AP didn't get pregnant?

You deserve SO MUCH better, OP.  Your kids will be fine and it will be good for them to see you stand up for yourself and not to stay in a bad relationship. [/quote]

The height of evil to cheat and pretend to reconcile in order to hide money. Courts don’t look fondly at that so I hope your friends husband was caught.[/quote]

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