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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In this case I would try to figure out why because that seems like such a selective and personal exclusion. Can your mom poke around? I would probably go to the cousin and just be really open and say 'I just found out about Larla and Tom's wedding and that we seem to be the only people not invited. I'm not angry but I'm a little confused and hurt and mostly want to understand why because I thought we all had a good relationship. Did something happen?'

So they aren't on the defensive about the wedding and you can just get to the meat of the matter. [/quote]

Oh I did reach out to the parents. The response I got was that "the young couple are paying for the wedding". I could feel my cousin was uncomfortable. [b]So it was OK for the young couple to be at my house many times but apparently we are not good enough for the wedding.[/b] [/quote]

I am glad your cousin was comfortable.  They should be.   That is pretty rude.

I would think twice about having this cousin and the newlyweds to my events going forward.     I wonder how they were going to break the news after the fact?    So odd, considering you just hosted them ALL at your home.

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