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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When he's supposed to be spending time with his DD, you shouldn't be there. He also should never have introduced you to his daughter without clearing that with his ex, first. He's sloppy. Also, if you were smart and had any self-respect, you'd not enter into (and continue) a relationship with a messy excuse for a man. Please set the bar much higher. [/quote]

Omg ffs. An ex is not entitled to meet or have demands with who you spend time with, or who the child spends time with. I'm sure you feel they "should" but this is not a thing people. Also - it's pretty rich to say that no one else is supposed to be around - but how long does that last for BOTH parties - til kids are 18? So you're suggesting that all co-parents stay single until all kids of divorce are adults? You're ridiculous.

OP should absolutely NOT meet ex if ex is proven to be unhinged and unstable - particularly because she is not a step mom or even a potential one at this point. She is a girlfriend and dating this guy. Could she be the "bigger" person? Certainly - but ex gives no incentive to do so - calling OP names, demanding, etc. is all on the BF to handle his way.

I'm sorry to tell you guys but when you are not together and are co-parenting - you do not have the RIGHT to vet who your kid is around during time with other parent unless you can prove the person in question is harming the kid - and you do that through the courts - not just yelling out demands.

OP should continue to pursue this relationship - and decide if all the drama is worth it in the end - but that's where her obligation ends - she doesn't owe the ex anything. Period.[/quote]

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