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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You seem really pushy OP
If you feel this way, just don't ask them or ask all ahead of time.  I hate pushy people who rush others.  Your imaginary deadline isn't anyone's issue.  It's yours[/quote]
I’m not OP, but how do you get anything done? A movie starts at a set time. That’s not an imaginary deadline. If you show up 40 minutes late, they don’t restart it from the beginning for you.[/quote]

Movies are scheduled well in advance.[/quote]

So your spouse can’t wake up on a rainy Sunday and suggest a movie? That’s sad AF. [/quote]

WTH? Of course they can suggest it but it is super annoying to get bent out of shape over it like OP is doing. Suggest a movie, not demand it and be pushy AF about it. [/quote]

The ILs were invited to be treated to a movie that their grandkids wanted to see, and had more than an hour to decide whether they wanted to go. As evidenced by the very fact that they did not go. No one frog-marched grandparents into the car. You do get that, right? Free will? Agency? Not being forced to do anything? No one was pushy. OP was actually kind to invite them to spend time with their grandkids, as her treat. They decided not to go. No one pushed them to do anything. Apparently they sat on the couch instead of being with their grandkids. [/quote]

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