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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If i like a man and see him at least 3 times, I try to create a comfortable setting to have a make-out session (without sex but certainly with me undressing  to nice lingerie). It's important for me to see if he's turning me on, and other way around, before continue seeing each other. Why waste everyone's time?

Sex is usually a month in, usually 6-7 dates and after I verified he's single, doesn't have criminal history, know where he works, and after I visited his home (again ,to verify he lives alone and is transparent).

Not sure how a woman can even have sex safely with anyone on date 1-2[/quote]

Seriously? Man here but if a woman strips down to nice lingerie I’m not going to be sitting there with my shirt and pants on. Then it will be very obvious that I am turned on and if it ends there I will assume she is a C-teaser. Please do your dates a favor and keep your clothes on until you are ready for sex. [/quote]

A man would be also undressed to underpants, well fed prior, and we would certainly have at least 3 dates with good heart to heart conversations and be relaxed. I’ll be giving him a massage, and yes in most  cases he finishes on my belly or back and I’m very close to O. I can only finish from PIV so I won’t let them go down on me. Oral sex is reciprocal IMHO and I don’t do it either direction until I’m certain he’s not sleeping with others. I do tell ahead of time that I don’t know them well enough to have actual penetrative sex. I had 6 LTRs and no flings at all in my lifetime. Only one guy backed off (out of 8 it started this way), and later acknowledged he was already sleeping with someone (good riddance!). Another guy had something about his body that repulsed me so I slowly faded on him after the  undressing session.  With 6 others sex did happen in a month or so. 
It’s basically the same as the PP woman describes but I just go further than taking out a man’s P from his pants and rubbing it. It seems very mechanical and dry to treat a man’s body partially as if only his P matters. I would want to see him undressed and caress other areas as well if I like him. It’s basically a full foreplay where I don’t get an O but he might (which depends on his sexual responsiveness). [/quote]

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