Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Adult Children
Reply to "How to navigate sleeping arrangements for holidays"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote]The daughter in this scenario IS respecting the house rules. In every single way. She's not arguing, she's not throwing a tantrum, she's not insisting that she sleep with her SO in her parents house. The father, on the other hand, is arguing, throwing a tantrum, and insisting that he get his way. You have accurately identified that there is a brat in this situation - but you picked the wrong person as the brat.[/quote] I guess that depends on how the DD's message was delivered. I thought it sounded a little like "I'll show you." It really sounds like DD and dad need to have a conversation about this where dad can explain why he wants to set this boundary (which he is entitled to do in his home) and DD can explain her take on it (and she is entitled to use her money to stay elsewhere). Lots of people here are ignoring the younger siblings, who the dad may think are very relevant for behavior modeling.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics