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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I can relate to so much of the baggage both your families have. I have a violent, sensitive, suicide-attempt brother, college dropout sister, highly successful but emotionally messed up brother, probably narcissistic mother with severe violence/rage issues…this stuff messes you up. I get where both you and your husband are coming from. I’m not sure what to suggest to actually help your kids. But for you, my best suggestion is an after school mother’s helper/nanny. Just someone else who is experienced, ultra-calm, and strict who can just be there as another presence to help you out when you’re overwhelmed and help enforce some boundaries. I think this would help your family dynamic immensely.[/quote]
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