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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She lied because she felt she had to. Ask yourself why that is. [/quote]

Why can’t MIL follow a very simple schedule?[/quote]
Grandparents will do whatever tf they want. They think your routines, food choices and rules are ridiculous. Even your mom thinks that, op.[/quote]

NP. That’s absolutely fine. They can be visitors, then, and not caregivers. It is 100% fine if they just want to visit and have fun, and not babysit. If they want to babysit, they will follow the rules.[/quote]

Or, you could relax. My kids are older now and out of the house, but with the benefit of hindsight I will say that I was way too uptight as a young parent and grandparents generally know what they are doing.[/quote]

+10000. My kids are teens now. My DH and I joke all the time about how uptight we were as new parents. I already have the quiet eye roll around younger parents. It’s literally the cycle of life. You live and then you learn.
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I’m team relax and don’t sweat the small stuff but I would not be comfortable with a caregiver (parent, friend, nanny, anyone) proactively lying to me about what they are doing with my child. Lying this way would not be small stuff to me [/quote]
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It’s the lying that’s not OK. [/quote]

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