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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been dating a man for 6 months. He's welcomed me into his life with open arms. We see each other non-stop, have great sex, and a nice friendship. He has commitment issues however, and has not "defined the relationship". I normally never wait this long for such a thing.  After a few months, I'm out. This has gone on so long because I like this man a LOT. Our day to day is so joy filled and we resolve conflict very easily. But the lack of definition is eating at my comfort level/self esteem. We've talked about labels in the past and [b]he says[/b] he cares for me a lot but his finances are in flux and [b]he doesn't want a committed relationship[/b] while things are in flux. From my perspective through our behavior we are in a committed relationship. Anyways, I'm feeling uncomfortable. I don't want to fall deeper if it's not going anywhere. Do I talk about my discomfort? He does not know that at this point I love him. Or just end it?[/quote]

Since you really like this guy, you could tell him that you really enjoy what you have together but for your peace of mind, you want to be in an exclusive relationship, committed relationship. If he can't say yes, then tell him it's going to be too hard for you and for him to call you when he feels ready to be in one. Then leave and try to truly be open to other people after giving yourself some time to grieve. [/quote]

Yes! This. If it’s a rose, it will bloom. He won’t delete your number and knows where to find you. But for your sake, choose yourself and be hopeful for someone else who wants to snatch you off the market before someone else does! [/quote]

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