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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Host a small dinner party based on a common interest that many women in the group have but queen bee does not, so it seems like there's logic to your strategy. Make it amazing. Post on social media. Approach Queen Bee next time you see her with, I would have loved to invite you but didn't have your info. Next time we're doing it at xx place. You should totally come! Reclaim THE POWER.[/quote] Everything but the last part. Don’t engage in mean girl passive aggression. Live your life and gray rock the toxic people. Give them nothing.[/quote] Yes, several years ago I became way too involved with women from my neighborhood. It started out nicely enough, but as more and more people moved to the neighborhood (it was an older neighborhood in the midst of a turnover), and then COVID happened, and everyone was home all of the time, it became such a toxic environment. I got my feelings hurt by some women who I thought were my friends, but I learned my lesson. It hurt at the time, and I felt similar to the OP. However, I've realized that these women are immature and have some sort of incessant need for validation and attention. I've realized who my true friends are - and no longer engage with the rest. They're not worth my time or energy. Plus, when I was hanging out with many of them, I wasn't even enjoying myself because I didn't actually like them. Once I admitted that to myself, it got much easier to move on. I also muted my neighborhood's group text chain. That's nothing but a cess pool of fawning to the queen bees and women looking for attention and head pats.[/quote]
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