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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your parents are terrible and this is 1,000% not your fault. It is not and will never be your job to referee them. 
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Nothing the OP said about her father indicates he is anything other than a good father.

Her mother is terrible, not her father.[/quote]

Am I taking crazy pills?

OP had a baby a month ago, & dad has not made any move to meet the baby or visit/support his daughter in this big life event. The only time he offers to visit postpartum daughter & new grandchild is on thanksgiving, when he will “be in town” (so he’s not even making this visit for the purpose of seeing daughter/grandchild). And he offers to come over to meet them - and have a big dinner that they prepare & pay for.

OP didn’t say anything disparaging about her father, but this scenario tells a lot. [/quote]

Yup. She is grateful for scraps.

[b]OP, did your mother suck it up for your wedding, or did she refuse to attend if your father was there? [/b]Because I know a lot of divorced parents who will suck it up on occasions that require it (graduations, etc) but given a choice, one of them will minimize time with the other, and for good reason.

Your mom really, really doesn't want to be around your dad, who isn't making you a priority. Why are you so desperate to see him?[/quote]

Neither parent wanted to deal with the other and stated they wouldn’t show up if the other attended. To avoid all the tension and drama, we just went to the courthouse. Neither were happy about that, but what else could we do? [/quote]

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