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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't currently, but have, grown all my own food, lived off grid and without electricity, raised slaughtered and preserved my own meat, canned all the food, raised the sheep that provided the wool for my clothing, and built barns and housing. Now I work and earn the money that enables me to purchase most of these things, probably from sweatshops in darkest Africa. I am independent now and was independent then, and I still do not need a man to pay my way. And yes, I had kids. Their dad did what most men do: nothing. I don't expect a man to pay on the first date because I have no need to be impressed by his earning power and no wish to be obligated. [/quote] When I dated, I ALLOWED men to pay, not out of need, but because most men I've met like to do that as a matter of kindness. It's pretty easy to tell if I guy is paying out of kindness, or if he's throwing money around to impress or control you.[/quote]
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