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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm an OW. I almost wish she would contact me sometimes so I could apologize. It was an EA yEars in the making.  Was friends with the DH first, but I was friends with the family. I didn't really mean for it to escalate to that level and so many people got hurt. We were just stupid and got too close. [/quote]

As someone whose husband had an affair years ago, I have to assure you that your apology would mean nothing. If anything, it would make me think you were even more selfish - that you wanted to release some of your own guilt. Honestly I could give a shit about how sorry you feel. I can't imagine ever allowing this kind of thing to happen and particularly to a couple with whom you are friends.  You can go ahead and hold on to that guilt for the rest of your life. Hopefully it has changed your life and your behavior to know how much what you did could have such long-lasting and devastating outcomes.  That's what guilt and shame are for - so you learn how to act. [/quote]

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