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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting that someone(s) is trying to make their point by citing OW who didn't know they were OW. That's a small minority of cases. I think a lot of people would dispute whether it's considered cheating on the AP's part if they don't know that the MM is lying about being single.

But like with all things, it's a bell curve, and you're citing examples of people at the extreme end of the spectrum. And the BW is even taking it out on the poor OW's children! And broadcasting the scenario to a large friend group! She's probably mean to puppies and old ladies too.

It's disingenuous to base your argument on an extreme example. Most OW are aware that he's married. Most BW do little that's actionable other than look at the OW's public instagram and text her BFF the most unflattering ones.

I mean, all Jean Valjean was steal some bread to feed his starving nephew! Why are people so judgmental of thieves? Am I right?

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I don’t think it’s an outlier. Look at the many many MANY people lying about their marital status on OLD.

And on the other side of the coin are people who leave their cheating spouses and continue to hate both the spouse AND their affair partner. This seems entirely reasonable to me. But hating and wishing ill upon one party while you sleep with and vacation with the other is hypocritical.[/quote]

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