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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP have you reached out to talk with anyone about this or made a decision to confront him?[/quote]

I am the OP.  I have confronted my dh a handful of times since I found out 2 months ago.  He [i]insists [/i]that they are [u]just friends[/u] and I am just jealous; he says he is trying to help her with her failed relationship with her prior boyfriend.  He feels sorry for her because she is divorced, lonely, and didn't get a cent from her ex-husband.

There was sexual context in their prior discussion, too.  This 2nd time that I read their chat, there was additional content.  They discuss her ex-boyfriend and the EA and my dh just added random comments about "giving you a good fuck sometime" and "lick your body".

Every 2-4 days, I am on this emotional roller coaster.  I feel fine one day and then the next, I am so teary, like yesterday.[/quote]

Pp here...yes I read about you seeing the sexual posts.  What is your plan?  I know its difficult and you are processing this but you gotta get yourself together and figure out what to do.  If you dont you will get more depressed and and/ or angry and everything will get out of control.

You also need to bite this in the ass now because it sounds like he might be getting physical with her.

Can you make copies or forward the chats to yourself?  When and how do you want to confront him?  Have you been able to confide in a friend.  I know its hard but you gotta start to think of a plan![/quote]

I have a copy of the first chat but not the second.  I have confided in a former co-worker whose husband also cheated on her last year.

He says he needs a social life.  I said, I'm fine with him having a social life but not with the EA.
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Is there a way to forward chats from Skype?[/quote]

I have no idea.  Hopefully someone on here can help if not maybe google it?  I really think you should think about your next step.  Please do not let this go on much longer.  You will only keep hurting yourself.  I am so sorry!  Hang in there![/quote]

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