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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not surprising the consensus is assuming the In-laws don't want to see the DIL outside of their child and/or give them the opportunity to develop their relationship with her without their child being the go-between. [/quote]

There are 364 days that aren’t December 25th in which they can prove to her they want to develop an independent relationship with her. Just wanting Christmas looks like they just want to be served.[/quote]

Don’t be so obtuse. Christmas is a major family holiday. Having children involved makes it even more fun. God forbid grandparents want to spend the holiday with their son’s family. I mean the sheer audacity of them because DIL wants to sulk around the house all day because husband has to work. You women here are the literally the worst. You are all about excommunicating the in-laws when you put a ring on it and making sure they know they are no longer welcome.  [/quote]

They can want what they want. They would be entitled to feel disappointed. None of this takes precedence over OP for a [b]SINGLE [/b][u]Christmas. Those imposing this on her are the ones that are actually the worst.[/quote]

Don't come here to complain when the In-Laws only want to see their son without the Princess DIL in tow because she is SOOOOO difficult to tolerate for a few hours. The DIL can have all the hurt feeling she wants and would be entitled to feel disappointed. None of this takes allows OP to dictate her husbands relationships or who he spends time with. [/quote]

Seems very unlikely. I’ve never seen a DIL complain about a DH who manages his own relationship with his parents. Cool story though.[/quote]

Do the research on here before you keep opening your idiot mouth. Cool story though. [/quote]

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