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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry you are going through this. Dealing with stubborn aging parents is overwhelming. I had to quickly move my parents the summer of 2020; find CCRC near me, deal with their health problems, prep their house, deal with all their crap, pack up, move and sell the house. I found some great people on here that are trained in dealing with seniors and their stuff. It was expensive, but 1-2 days with an expert to help get rid of stuff was so worth it!! Good luck!
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Thank you so much. It’s very hard. Expensive is something my husband and I are willing to tackle as long as it helps and does not enable. And this sounds like it will help.[/quote]

Enable?   You cannot be for real.  Hire a caregiver so your sister can work and pay the house expenses.  They aren’t going to find a cheaper place to live.   Be real. [/quote]

She's getting some caregiving now through her insurance and we've already hired someone who comes in to help. I've been paying credit card bills for my sister for over 4 years now. Just bought the new washer, new TV, have paid for their cable bill and other expenses. They are exceeding in expenses everything we've been paying. How I don't know. I don't have access to the credit cards - only my sister does. She doesn't use her money to pay any house expenses - a bit in food if they are short every once in a while. She never has.[/quote]

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