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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see now how naive I was about what parenthood is like, and my reasons for wanting kids were short-sighted, stupid, and selfish.

And now I’m paying for it. I will never be free.

No need to feel sorry for my kids. They have a good life, and I block out these feelings during the day. It’s only at night when everyone is asleep and the house is quiet and still enough for these feelings to creep up that I’m overcome with sorrow.

That is all. [/quote]

I think this is a three part issue.

1. Obviously, not putting much thought into the decision of having children.

2. Mental health issues.

3. Financial and marital issues.

Try to analyze it from all three angles. Seek therapy and seek support from spouse, parents, siblings, in-laws, friends, neighbors, paid babysitters, whoever is willing to extend a hand.

AND keep it in mind that right ir wrong, becoming pregnant was in your control, not in your children's control. You owe it to them for your decision.
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