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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He won’t remember her name in a couple years or even less. For men it’s just sex.  Read the other thread with the article cited about this. If this was a midlife thing due to his own issues and he’s done the work, he isn’t even thinking of her.  I can’t remember her last name or much of anything and the trauma it caused pretty much caused a black out of the that time.  Women carry this thing for a long time.  For men it’s nothing.  Don’t ruin a marriage if it were happy up until this point.  Infidelity in a long marriage is close to 65%.  I wish you peace. Don’t get stuck. She wants to stay relevant and believes she had some impact. She needs to or she just feels used.  Move on. [/quote]

So OP's DH ( and you) risked his marriage over " nothing", but OP will be "ruining" her otherwise " happy" marriage if she makes decisions based on the reality that she is married to someone who is willing to gamble his marriage away for "nothing." Why would she be happy living with an impulsive liar who will throw away they life they've built for nothing?

Are you and all cheaters this stupid, PP?

I hope you are seeing a shrink...[/quote]

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