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[quote=Anonymous]I would not expect my DH's siblings to attend my parents' funerals, even though over the years my parents' have been guests in their homes, had thanksgiving with them, etc. I also wouldn't expect them to send a gift or a card. But I know my DH's siblings care for me. OP, gently, just let it go. You're grieving. I'm sure your DH's sister cares for you and did not mean to hurt you. I don't think her actions are any indication of a lack of care for you. In the old days, the rules were clear; you either attended the funeral or wrote a kind note or sent a casserole/flowers/donation, or all of those things. These days, with social media and electronic communication, people just don't know what the new standards are. But that doesn't mean they don't care or don't love you. [/quote]
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