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Reply to "NY Times on new application essays dabbling in so-called "identities""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no idea what it means not to partake in "identification". Are you saying that your kid refuses to answer questions about their gender, or religion, or nationality, or family status or hobbies? Everyone I know identifies as something. [/quote] If you're a white male, cis/het, not religious, UMC, family been here a long time and intermixed (generic European), truly what is there to say? I'm not in this category but I feel like these Qs should be optional. Otherwise it is very cringe and fake.[/quote] "Tell us about an aspect of your identity OR [b]a life experience that has shaped you[/b]." By 17, kids have been shaped by something. If not, write an eloquent essay about being an unmolded lump still seeking form.[/quote] No need to bolden that. "Shaping life experiences" are also none of a university's business and this part of the question has no legitimate purpose, either. [quote=Anonymous] My kid has many aspects to his identity. He is Jewish. He has a disability. He has a brother with a disability. He is white. He is American. He is a cis male. He plays a sport. He grew up in the south. He enjoys science. He is an extrovert who prides himself on prioritizing friendships. He volunteers. Some of those things he shared in essays, and some he chose not to either because he felt they were too personal (e.g., his disability) or irrelevant (e.g., they saw his citizenship and sex/gender when he applied and he didn't have anything to add on that topic). That left him with tons and tons of things to talk about, many of which he "chose" for himself (sports, academic interests, volunteer work, friendships). [/quote] [b]Are you familiar with the teen slang TMI? None of this belongs in a college application, and shouldn't even be asked.[/b] [/quote] A college application should not ask about sports, academic interests, and volunteer work? Or, again, is the problem with race, religion, and gender? [/quote] Your brain seems so mushed that you can't see the difference. Yes, colleges can asked about academic interests - though better only academic achievements. Race, religion, gender, sports, volunteer work are nonacademic issues that have no relevance. You know who does it that way? Every industrialized country aside from the U.S. You send in your transcript, perhaps take an entrance exam, and that's what decides. Not your oversharing your "identity" to play some kind of stupid game, as other posters have pointed out. [/quote]
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