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Reply to "My Fiance told me yesterday that he wants me to move out"
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[quote=Anonymous]He is doing the push-pull dance to keep you off balance. It’s a manipulation technique. He’ll dangle staying together and make you jump through hoops. As you focus your energy on trying to save the relationship, he’ll be using his energy to get the best deal for himself. You do not ever jump through hoops. He broke the relationship, he has to be the one to spend 100% of his energy to fix it. “I don’t trust that you really want us to stay together now. I’m going to keep living my life with the assumption that we will be splitting up. Part of that will involve figuring out how to untangle our finances. While this is going on, you will have the opportunity to prove to me that you want us to stay together. Once we’ve figured out the finances, if we decide to stay together, I will need a legal document outlining how things will be handled if in the future you want to end things again”[/quote]
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