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It is sad that some wives end up being more intimate with the AP than their cheating husband ever was- they research, do In-depth analysis and extrapolate a great more from the relationship than ever existed. And more time wasted searching for the elusive answer to  “Why?” [/quote]

You can’t understand unless you’re in the situation.  Sad implies the wife is being pathetic or weak, which is incredibly unfair and completely lacking in empathy [/quote]

I meant to imply that the two women (AP and betrayed spouse) probably think and know more about each other in a layered intimate strangers fashion. After a certain point, it is some sort of mental atavistic mate competition that has little to do with the actual cheater. Both women have over-exaggerated ideas of the expanse and depth of the relationship, while the cheater is oblivious to all this manufactured nuance.[/quote]

Yep. For men, it's pump and dump. Just sex. They might have played the fantasy mushy-wushy---but when the chips are down they are DONE.  The women fixate on it for years after.[/quote]

So why do men more frequently leave the marriage ofter being cheated on? They never think how good they might be in bed compared to the other man even after the affair is over?[/quote]

Most don’t leave. 68% stay.[/quote]

+1, the vast majority of divorces are initiated by women, even when it was the woman who strayed. Women have a much easier time imagining themselves on their own, and are more capable of self-sufficiency, than most married men. An alarming number of unhappily married men will stay that way simply because it is easier than figuring out how to live without their wives. Men are extremely lazy.[/quote]

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