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Reply to "Friend says I treated her "like an errand boy". "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, assuming you are not a troll, what are you looking for here? I thought you were looking for help resolving a conflict with your friend. If that's the issue, you need to accept that your friend's perspective on this situation and your relationship dynamic might be valid [i]from her position[/I]. You don't have to agree, but you have to accept that to her, this interaction made her feel used or diminished in some ways, and that experience is valid. But it feels like you are just looking for people on here to say "she's a jerk, she's crazy, she sucks, she's wrong" so that you can feel good about your own behavior. That's fine if that's what you want, but then drop the pretense that you are trying to resolve the conflict. Because if all you want is to be right and for her to be wrong, you are actually pretty invested in the conflict and it will persist.[/quote]
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