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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this new? If not why did your brother go in to have for kids with a woman who doesn’t want to parent? For kids under six is a LOT. If it is new has he sat down to talk to her about it rather than just criticizing her on how she’s living her life/implying she’s a bad parent? I mean sure maybe SIL’s a terrible person but it’s not like she created those kids in her own.[/quote] Seems to have developed after the first child. Not a strong connection with the kids. They all want him when they want a parent, not her. And yes, he has spoken to her directly, and with a couples therapist, and his own therapist. She simply says she doesn’t care what he thinks about her solo plans and she is goes anyway. [/quote] OP, your enmeshment with your brother's family seems unhealthy. Focus on your own life. Your brother and SIL are adults> Trust them to figure out their own life.[/quote]
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