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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BIL has the upper hand because he is present and the sole provider. He must be earning a lot to support this insanity. SIL doesn’t earn a salary, and she’s taking off on her husband's dime. If he divorces her, she’ll need to work, so there goes her [i]me[/i] time. 50/50 custody. He’s not going to pay for her nannies when she has the kids. He’ll hire someone when he has the kids. She has a lot to lose. You all are putting most of the blame on him for creating 4 kids. Are you nuts. What about her responsibility? Did she lie about birth control? Or did she dupe him? Is he a 1%er? [/quote]

For all we know, the SIL would prefer this. BIL sounds like a high earner and will end up paying hefty child support. Yes, she’ll likely go back to work- but I don’t see any indication she would be opposed to that. She’ll have as much “me time” as ever- he will have the kids 50% of the time! The kids will be in school FT soon enough as well- sounds like the oldest 2 already almost are. She doesn’t sound like she has expensive tastes- I mean, she spends her free time camping, not at the spa FFS.

Perhaps that would be the better solution for all. 🤷‍♀️[/quote]

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